A Letter To Her Next Lover: Don’t Let Her Go


You’re lucky. You really are.

Please take care of her. She’s been through a lot and she deserves happiness.

I love her a lot – so please be patient with her. She’s kind, awesome, adorable, beautiful – everything a guy can dream of. She has the cutest smile in the world that will make your knees quiver and make you a stuttering mess. If she sings in front of you or beside then she’s comfortable with you.

She’s afraid when there is thunderstorm so be sure to call her, text her, Skype her, FaceTime her, or anything just to be there for her when she’s afraid. Don’t just do it just to score points, do it because you like it, do it because she means a lot to you, do it because you want to, do it because you love her, because you want to see her smile. Do it because it makes you happy. Do it till she is secured and fast asleep. Just imagine it. It makes you smile right?

Yeah dude it makes me smile too.

She’s everything to me so you better treat her with the respect that she deserves.

She deserves the best so give everything you got, treat her the Queen that she is. If you’re not going to do it then leave it for someone else that will. That girl deserves the best in the world has to offer.

Also update her from time to time. Never miss an update because that will upset her and when she’s upset you’ll be facing fury. But make sure to return it with love – not by facing it head on and being angry. Be there for her when she needs it and when she needs it the most.

She loves cats and her baby sister. She loves cute things. She loves SpongeBob and sunflowers and they will make her happy. Her favorite chocolate is Kinder.

That kinder has a story for me. One day while I was at work, it rained until it flooded. A lot of people were stranded in the street, with no storm signal whatsoever, just heavy rain. I don’t know what came to my mind but I bought a kinder Bueno and walk through that flooded area until I reached my destination which was her school. The flood came up to my knees after the rain and I was in my formal attire (minus the coat) so you can imagine what the heck was I was doing. Even I don’t know, but what I do know is that I loved her from that day on.

As you can see love can make you do a lot of things. It conquers a lot of obstacles which I had so many of that day.

She’s worth all the trouble.

There will be nights that she will be late due to her job, sometimes she’ll be drinking with her colleagues, friends, high school batch mates, and college friends. Just understand that she’s a strong woman who has priorities. Just don’t forget to check up on her and reprimand her when she’s going to do something wrong. You’ll get there and know when to do it. All in all she’s an amazing woman. Don’t you dare contradict that and ever forget that.

She gets jealous a lot. Really. Her eyebrows will knit and looks like there’s just one eyebrow which is pretty cute. But she loves you if she does that. Don’t misunderstand that. Just tell her and reassure her that you love her too.

About that, she needs constant reassurance, assure her that she’s the only girl you love and will ever love. If you’re going to say that then say it when you mean it. Not just telling and reassuring, but tell her you mean it and she means a lot to you. Don’t just say it to please her because it will cost you.

Losing her was not something I had in mind, I planned to grow old with her and cherish her with everything I have because she deserves the happiness that she gave me. She made me really happy. She was my world, she was everything to me and it all came crashing down into nothing. You will feel empty and it will never be the same.

Don’t let her go.

Give what she deserve. I love her. I’m begging you not to hurt her. She’s everything to me.

Give her your all and she will do the same. She’s the best woman that you will ever have. So you better treat her right and with respect.

She’ll always be my little munchkin that I will always love.

To infinity and beyond.