He Wasn’t Your Soulmate, He Was A Distraction
He wasn’t your soulmate, he was a lesson – and what you projected onto him tells you everything that you need to know.
He wasn’t your soulmate, he was a lesson – and what you projected onto him tells you everything that you need to know.
Self-love often works from the outside in. Rather than deciding we love ourselves one day, if we can become less and less critical of other people’s behaviors and choices, we learn how to be more accepting of our own.
Healing is not an event, it is a process, and in most cases, it is a process of learning how to let emotions pass without getting stuck.
People will judge you for wanting to be better because it shines a light on the parts of themselves they’re waiting for someone else to fix.
When you start really thinking about what you do control, you start to realize that the circumstances aren’t the question. The question is: what are you going to do now?
You don’t have to be everything, all the time. You don’t have to do anything perfectly.
Toxic people are manipulative, codependent, and reliant on you to deal with the overwhelming negativity in their lives. They are not just people with problems – they are people who don’t take responsibility for those problems.
The point is that being a mess does not make you more likable, it makes you more pitied.
Stop “subtweeting.”
You’re not less blessed than someone because you don’t have what they have. You might just be less convinced that you deserve it.