What Is An Argument?

Arguments have been given a bad rap. They’re contentious, we say. They’re hostile, oppositional. When we picture an argument, we see…

Living With Power

Living by principle is something we seem to respect as a culture. But not me. I don’t respect it. Living by principle is living by fixed abstractions while I am a living, breathing, changing system. Why would I ever want to be tethered to a principle? Eeesh!

A Sibling Kind of Love

I will say from the get go that I don’t know much about love. I’ve experienced it, for sure, multiple times…

Say The Right Thing (Not The True Thing)

And so I often find myself in conversations — with co-workers, family, friends, students, lovers — in which I instinctively reach for the word that is true, not for the word that is right.