Why I Don’t Regret That Time I Dated A Total Player
I learned what qualities I needed in a long-term relationship. I learned what qualities I didn’t want, too.
I learned what qualities I needed in a long-term relationship. I learned what qualities I didn’t want, too.
Each day is an opportunity to go deeper into our own life and who we desire to be in this world.
Because our society equates “being a man” with always being horny, all discussions of men with lower sex drives brings up all kinds of shame on both sides of the bed.
Don’t dial down your enthusiasm for the world; rather, learn skills to successfully navigate the world around you, which is full of people who manage their energy differently than you.
Our minds will try to convince us that we don’t deserve to have even small pleasures because we haven’t “earned it.”
We get in trouble for being too loud or too messy or too big. And so we begin to shrink into smaller, watered down versions of ourselves. We do this in an attempt to be loved and accepted.
We are choosing to tell ourselves that we don’t have time and we are choosing to not make the time.
Want to know the only thing standing between who you are today and who you desire to be? It’s you.
It means taking stock of what’s really important and what’s not. Commit to not doing the unimportant things anymore.
We fear failure, so either we don’t try at all, or we sabotage a project early. If no one knows that we tried, then they won’t think we’ve failed, right?