You’re Allowed To Be Scared About What The Future Holds
You’re allowed to be scared about leaving old situations behind. Even if you’ve been desperate for an escape, it’s still normal to hesitate before walking away from everything you’ve known.
You’re allowed to be scared about leaving old situations behind. Even if you’ve been desperate for an escape, it’s still normal to hesitate before walking away from everything you’ve known.
Love loudly because every single person on this planet is going through more than you realize. They might need to hear those words. They might need your kindness.
You need more than time to be productive. You also need to be in a healthy state of mind.
You aren’t as unlovable as you’ve been telling yourself. And you should never have to feel like you need to lie about who you are in order to find a relationship.
It doesn’t mean your anxiety is going to hold you back forever. It simply means, right now, you need a little break. You need some time to rest. To readjust. To reenergize.
You might feel like you’re alone because everyone else looks like they have their lives together. Because everyone else seems to be moving at a healthy pace and hitting all the right milestones. Because it seems like you’re the only one struggling this hard, feeling this confused, feeling this numb.
Getting engaged means prioritizing someone else. It means valuing their happiness as much as your own.
It sucks when you feel like a disappointment. Like a failure. Like a fuckup.
Your success is external and your peace of mind is internal, so it’s easier to judge whether you’ve been doing a good job at work than it is to judge whether you’ve been taking good care of yourself.
You shouldn’t underestimate the importance of videos that take your mind off your own life, even if it’s only for fifteen or twenty minutes.