15 People Share The Biggest Thing About Someone’s Personality That Turns Them Off On The First Date
“Being rude to the waiter or Uber driver or anyone else in the service industry. It’s the fastest way to tell if someone is a douchebag.”
“Being rude to the waiter or Uber driver or anyone else in the service industry. It’s the fastest way to tell if someone is a douchebag.”
You don’t try to ‘fix everything’ for one another or prevent one another from having any challenging experiences whatsoever – because you understand that struggle is a natural part of any adult’s life. But you also never hesitate to step in, do whatever you can to help your partner, and to help them keep themselves afloat when they feel like they’re drowning.
Be a better friend not by being perfect, but just by always being there. [tc-mark]
“Start doing all those things on your bucket list that you keep saying you’ll ‘get to.’ Travel (solo or with friends), signing up for yoga classes, bungee jumping, horse carriage rides, learning a new language. Do those things NOW. Now is the time.”
This is one of the most beautiful things about your young heart. That it can experience such pain and yet keep going and keep opening, because it knows that when it finds love again, after knowing pain, it will be that much sweeter.
You feel one another’s secondhand emotions very intensely. When they’re sad, you’re sad. When you’re anxious, they’re anxious and they want to do everything in their power to fix it. When one of you is happy, the other one is incredibly happy too.
The career you have right now does not have to be set in stone, if you don’t want it to be.
“My older sister telling me that this was the first relationship she had ever seen me in that was functional, healthy, and GOOD. And that if I tried to walk away, that I was a fool. The word ‘fool’ is what got to me.”
Forgive yourself for causing hurt and pain in others. In people you loved, in people you didn’t particularly like, in yourself.
“Giving ourselves permission to feel like individuals again. I don’t know when it happened but we became just ‘a couple’ and sort of lost our sense of ourselves along the way.”