But I don’t know why we let the things that people say or do affect how we see ourselves. I don’t know why we try to change who we are to fit into places that we don’t belong.
Your strength does not lie within the moments where you feel that you are at your strongest, but instead, your strength lies in the moments where you feel that you are at your weakest.
We need to reconfigure our minds from thinking that we are broken, lost, or doomed if we are not in a committed relationship.
A huge part of growing up is getting to know yourself before you get to know another person. This is often why young love dies so quickly. You fall in love with someone, then realize there’s so still so much more to figure out.
Not every year is meant to be easy or perfect or wonderful. Some years are meant for growth. And in order to grow, we must keep pushing forward.
You see, when you are with someone that you know is not right for you, it will be very hard.
The thing is, often times I would myself planning for my next move instead of being present with where I already was.
Be the person who gives up your seat on the subway.
It is unkind, unwanted, and unnecessary harassment that is not only offensive, but also distracting and demeaning to the female race.
The sooner you begin to explore and begin to understand what you want in a career, in a relationship, and in life in general, the sooner you can get to work on actually getting there.