Black Hair Problems

At some point, at least once, a black person will hear: “Wow, your hair is sooooo cool! Can I touch it??” Like, I know that my hair is a site of unbridled fascination and holds many secrets, but unless you’re going to give me something of yours to touch in return, I’m thinking no.

A Close Reading Of Ke$ha

The thing about Ke$ha is that she’s kind of a hot mess. We expect our pop stars to be perfectly prim, coiffed, blonde, and dressed to the nines. But this is what makes someone like Ke$ha so interesting: she gives us trash instead of glamour, semen instead of glitter, and dirt in lieu of makeup.

Discussion: What Are The Songs You’re Embarrassed To Like?

Taste in music isn’t just about listening to what we like — it’s another way of showing people what subcultural groups we do or don’t belong to. When people find out I like Yanni (yes, Yanni!), I feel like it jacks up my street cred.

When A Co-Worker Writes You On Grindr

The real issue about a co-worker hitting you up on Grindr, aside from the awkwardness that will inevitably result, is when does a simple text message or D pic become sexual harassment?

An Interview With Somebody In An Open Relationship

“Open relationships should always come from a place of, we’re young, we’re hot, let’s just experience stuff. I honestly think that once my partner starts telling me about people he’s hooking up with it’ll be like a fun thing we can kiki about, like we’re best friends.”