Marvin Scholz

Do The Highs Justify The Lows In Your Relationship?

If the highs mean taking lows too often, that’s not tolerable for either of you.

Do you love the person or simply the situation they put you in?

I am happy that you’re happy. I’m happy that you’ve moved on. I’m happy that you finally found the stability that you’ve longed for so long.

Despite all my mistakes, I loved that woman. But that was precisely the problem.

It’s safe to say that neither of us deserved what we did to each other.

Forgiveness means giving up hope for a different past. It’s accepting that the past is just that — the past. It’s over. What’s done is done.

It’s not that I’m emotionally unavailable. I am emotionally available, but I’m also as fragile as glass. And I can’t break again.

All that baggage you’ve been dealing with. Hasn’t it been difficult carrying all that hurt with you all year long?

This life is yours to live—it’s your moment, and your time is now.

You learn to love someone from a distance when you realize that their presence no longer brings you peace but perdition.