It’s strange how we think that we can find ourselves. As if the essence of our beings could fit into words of familiar languages. The truth is that we are as vast as our untapped potential, as big as the sun and stars, and as wild as the universal spirit of life.
The inflow of cash in a non-fulfilling job feels good with the first few shiny new paychecks, but then the human part of us begins to wonder whether we are turning into machines. It begins to seek deeper meaning, an emotional and spiritual connection that materialism alone isn’t able to satisfy.
You’re looking for what they can do for you in your idealized fantasy, rather than the reality of what you can do for each other.
I’m not a Facebook friend or an Instagram like. I’m a real person with emotions, thoughts, hopes and dreams. I’m not going to pretend like I don’t care, and that being vulnerable is something I should be ashamed of.
I’m really sorry if you had a bad experience once or twice, but if you have a string of shitty relationships with ‘assholes’, maybe the problem is not the entire population of men. Perhaps you should consider that maybe the problem is you.
Work on finding yourself, and love is sure to find you.
The people for me show me how the power of compassion beats the brute force of cruelty, how the strength of love trumps anger and hate. They are the ones whose hearts grow bigger with disaster and adversity, rather than smaller. They have mastered the fine art of transforming pain into creativity, rather than inflicting it onto, and damaging someone else.
They are unashamedly feminine and girlish. They remind men of first love high-school crushes that they never really got over.
Millennials have mistakenly assumed that playing around and breaking people’s hearts is cool. That not seeming to care and being emotionless is desirable.
Let 2017 be the year that you practice minimalism and try to be less materialistic. Buy less, think less, do less, and breathe more. Get rid of the unnecessary clutter of toxic people, negative thoughts, and useless objects in your life.