Once we’ve been out for a month, and I’ve decided that we’re on the same page about what we want in life and we seem to like in each other, I’ll cut most of my other dating options off and concentrate on you and you alone.
My non-committal history has given me the ability to spot the unavailable pretty quickly. Here are six ways to spot the unavailable, or six ways to become unavailable if that’s what you’re into.
“Who the hell are you and what did I get myself into?”
DO NOT EVER SEND THESE.
Last week I had a couple of articles go viral and lots of public opinion to go with it. I was…
Do not respond. I repeat and in all caps DO NOT RESPOND!!
Love in fact, does not concur all. It’s a common misconception that if you love someone, everything else will work itself out.
If you don’t want this to go any further, you need clarity. It’s that simple.
Like most of the blocks we face in our life and relationships, uncertainty comes from fear — the fear of loss and heartbreak, the fear of losing our independence and, most common of all, the fear of the unknown.
For most, a friendship with your ex keeps a door open to a possible reconnection. Opposite-sex friendships are complex enough. Having to maintain a friendship with someone who you’ve been emotionally and physically connected to just makes it more complicated.