I Hope You Heal Your Heartbreak


I hope you heal your broken heart.

All those heartbreaking nights you spent crying yourself to sleep. The countless times your heart broke when the one who swore to love you forever left without a second glance. The cold words that chilled you to your bone when you discovered how they felt absolutely nothing for you. The irreversible crack of your heart reminding you constantly what you lost. The haunting memories that tormented you with how happy you used to be and how you would give anything to go back.

They happened for a reason.

Those dark days signify that better times are coming. This heartbreak is meant to pull you out from the painful situation that you were stuck in. This ending that you could not accept is actually bringing you to a fresh start where you will eventually find the love you deserve. This devastation that shook your life is strengthening you into a strong individual who can weather any storm.

As hard as it is to accept the reality of your heartbreak, it happened. It may be unimaginable to think of happiness but one day, you will smile and truly meant it. One day when you think of the person, who broke your heart, you realized with a pang that you feel nothing for them. You have stopped loving them and you no longer blame them for the hurt they caused you. It hit you then that it has been ages since this person crosses your mind. One day you will meet someone else who you care deeply for and you want to spend the rest of your life with. They will just get you effortlessly and for once, love is easy. By then, you will be relieved that this heartbreak happened as it leads you to your true love.

I hope you accept that some goodbyes are a blessing in disguise. They propel you to the direction you are supposed to go. They push you to the new beginning of hopes and love that you’re seeking for.

The universe works in mysterious ways and beyond our understanding. But trust in the higher power. That it is guiding you to the place you are meant to be. Sometimes we outgrew certain situations and people because they are no longer serving us. Maybe they are supposed to be part of your journey to help you learn a lesson. Maybe they are the reason why you have shaped to the person you are today. They are meant to be in your life for a season and now that their time is up, it is time to let them go. Bid them goodbye and accept the impact they left in your life. Know that no matter what happened, nobody can take away the memories you made.

I hope you realize that all the love that you are after is within you.

You tried to be strong for so long but there is only so much suffering you can take. You feel like you’re at your wits end and you just want this pain to end. I know you long for someone to wrap you up in their arms promising to be there for you. You yearn for love to save you from the storms that you were sunk in. You pray to find solace in someone to shield you from your current grim reality.

But can’t you see that you don’t need any saving. All you need is yourself.

Only you have the power to mend the broken pieces of your heart. You are the only one who can truly be there for yourself. You have the ability to write your own story and choose the path you want to take. You control your own fate and you get to decide where you want to go from here. And it is fully up to you to pull yourself together and live the life you know you deserve.