It really doesn’t matter what you’re changing from, or to, only that any kind of massive psychological or emotional shift tends to heed similar circumstances, and common struggles.
People say that your career won’t love you back, but you don’t need it to.
Long story short: accept even the ugly things about you.
It doesn’t have to be so strenuous: here are a few really simple ways to actualize yourself, and make even the smallest parts of your life feel like your own again.
You think you don’t have enough friends.
People who are “passionate” about what they do are lost in their emotions, people who grow to love what they do are driven by daily actions and gratitude for them.
We think that the point of relationship is to commit, but really, the point is to grow.
We think we want a partner, but what we really want is to feel love for ourselves, and not need someone else to keep injecting good feelings into our lives for us. We think we want to lose weight, but what we really want is to feel secure, and to love our bodies for how they are.
Being confident all the time is not inner strength, it’s delusion.
An ironic thing about many adults who had easy, loving childhoods is that they tend to have a plethora of problems…