This Is What Perfectionism Really Looks Like

Perfectionism is about being frozen because you never want to find out that you are not the best at something. You circle the drain and repeat old behaviors and you control what you know you can control because the idea of risking being wrong or incorrect or imperfect makes your heart race in a terrible way.

F*ck Being Happy

We’re forgetting how to be alive, how to be in pain, how to suffer. We’re glossing over. We’re saying we’re fine when we’re not fine. We’re lying to ourselves and to everyone else.

Why The Parts Of Us We Hide Away End Up Owning Us

Our secrets, our little betrayals we commit onto ourselves, our I’m fine’s when we’re not fine, these end up becoming much more than small, momentary infractions. They multiply. And, each of these betrayals lead us further and further from being true to ourselves.