The Four Signs That Told Me I Was Finally Over Him
Then one day, I was sitting at my desk at work and it hit me. After months of heartbreak and despair, I no longer obsessed over what was.
Then one day, I was sitting at my desk at work and it hit me. After months of heartbreak and despair, I no longer obsessed over what was.
If an “almost relationship” has taught me anything, it’s that I hold control over my own happiness.
You were meant to push me to my limit, time and time again. You were my test; the test to see if I was capable of loving myself enough to walk away from the situation that constantly left me devastated.
I hit rock bottom and realized that I allowed myself to fall so low because I didn’t care about myself like I needed to.
It only took me 28 years to figure this out. I could choose to be frustrated that it took me as long as it did, or I can spend the rest of my life accepting the love I deserve and letting go of the negativity. I have personally made it a goal to help as many people as possible realize their worth. The faster you learn to love yourself, the faster you start living life on your terms.
Well, I hate to break it to you. You lost me. I can see now, it was my own fault. I chose to ignore the fact that your actions never lined up with your words. I just kept telling myself that eventually it would work out.
You control your happiness. At the end of the day, we have all the control. We decide who and what we put up with. We decide how hard to work and what we attempt.
It will be the kind of love that is selfless, ongoing and everything that you deserve. It will be so great and worth the wait, you will be thanking your previous heartbreaks for breaking you enough to allow you to rebuild yourself how you needed to be.
“Long drives with good friends and loud music were what I needed.
This is the time you need to spend on you. Be selfish with yourself. You can’t truly love another person until you learn to love yourself. So do exactly that, love who you are, flaws and all.