Gemini: Understand that being a good friend has two sides – it means being there for the people you care about, but also letting them be there for you. You are very good at being dependable and supportive, but you’re more reluctant to let your friends take care of you. Being okay with letting your friends look out for you is just as important as looking out for them – it works both ways.
They ask a lot of questions.
Being unable to help yourself from feeling fond of a lot of silly little things about them – like their handwriting or the way they sneeze or how ridiculous their laugh can sound sometimes.
Let go of the belief that romantic love is the answer to all of your problems, and that as soon as you find it, all the anxiety you have about your job and your social life and your overall existence will magically dissipate.
A person’s outward behavior is no indication of how they are feeling internally. There are a lot of people secretly suffering with anxiety that you would never expect. Some of them are the most positive and fun-loving people you know.
“I used to be able to pull all-nighters but now I can barely pull all-dayers.”
“As hard as I try not to be, I am absolutely crushed by the judgment and criticism of others.” Yeah, a lot of us are. It’s okay. You can feel those things. What matters is that you keep doing the things that you care about anyway. That will show you who you are.
A person who opens her eyes to new experiences and ways of thinking and books and concepts and ideas, without ever trying to force their beliefs onto her.
For wanting love. You are allowed to be strong and independent and successful and happy with your single life and still really want to meet someone who you can share it all with.
Fight for the kind of love that makes you feel close to them but also close to yourself, because loving them deeply and fully does not mean that you have to let go of the person that you are on your own.