30 Lovebirds Describe What It Feels Like To Find Your Forever Person 

6. For me it is like being in a home with a lit fireplace – cozy, safe and warm. I didn’t have a lot of stability growing up, but from the moment I started dating my husband I finally felt secure. When I am at my very worst he is there supporting and encouraging me.

7. There are stages to it. It’s really exciting at first and you want to be with them all if the time. Then you’ll want time with your friends again and if they are cool they’ll be fine with that if not then it feels oppressive and you might start resenting them. It’s a lot like having a very good friend if you’re doing it right. If not then it’s like having a parent or a shitty friend that you can’t shake. You have to respect your life and time enough or you’ll just deal with crap that you know isn’t right. Once you’ve been together long enough it’s less exciting but much more comforting. It’s really up to you but it’s either the best thing or the worst. If you understand yourself enough you’ll be fine if not then someone else might start shaping you, your life and your future.

8. You can share things with them that you would usually tell no one and take to your grave and they don’t judge you and love you for who you are.