50 Singles Tell The Lesson They Learned About Love From Their Latest Breakup 

31. Love, or infatuation, is blind. What you feel in the first three months doesn’t truly portray the relationship or the person. You’re still learning about each other. Don’t let yourself become completely vulnerable at the start of a relationship.

Also, if they don’t want to commit, they’re not that into you.

32. Relationships are a lot of work, and love isn’t enough to keep one going on it’s own. Effort, patience, and communication are needed as well.