50 Singles Tell The Lesson They Learned About Love From Their Latest Breakup 

44. When you’re in an abusive situation, it’s VERY hard to see it. You’re blind to all that is wrong with this person you love. You believe this is the best that you will get, that there will be no better. You start to feel as if it’s all your fault and you deserve every horrific thing said and done to you. I learned that this is NOT what ANY relationship should be like; regardless of whether it is a romantic relationship, a friendship, or even your family.

45. Don’t date a drinker when you’re not one yourself.