50 Marriage Counselors On The Most Common Mistakes Couples Make

29. Not talking about/considering long term goals. For example if one wants kids but one doesn’t and deciding to move in/get married without having some kind of understanding in place.

30. They stop being nice to each other. It sounds simple, but people generally want to be around individuals who are nice.

31. Couples often forget to realize that it’s not him vs her, rather than it’s both of them against the problem. Some people try to debate their SO when there’s a dysfunction, and it’s just not the way to do it. Explore the wrongs you may have done that lead to this dysfunctionality too.