50 Marriage Counselors On The Most Common Mistakes Couples Make

19. Blaming their partner for all issues in the relationship and not taking ownership of their own role in dysfunction/issues.

20. Not listening, most people listen to respond and don’t listen to hear. This is what I spend the most time teaching couples how to do!

21. As soon as couple stops being on the same team, fighting all the bullshit of life together, things fall apart. Get on the same team. Get behind each other’s goals. If you’re not on the same team, you’re just going to wind up annoying the fuck out of each other. All that bullshit of life is going to be beating you down and your life partner is just going to be part of it instead of a refuge.